Sunday, December 12, 2010

Wishes...

I don't do Christmas letters ~
although...
I'm sure I'd have a lot to write about...
we've celebrated our
two granddaughter's
'1st' birthdays ~
the birth of a grandson ~
becoming 'empty nesters'
and
an engagement!
 Christmas cards are a thing of my past ~
But...
my wishes for everyone
are abundant ~
May you...
 spend memorable time with
family
friends
May you...
share lots of laughter
lots of love
have good health
and
may you all have an extremely
prosperous New Year!

With all my love ~
Merry Christmas
Happy New Year

Cathy

Monday, December 6, 2010

Happy 1st Birthday...


On 12/6/09 at 9:38pm
we were blessed with the arrival of our granddaughter

Cameron Paige Wowczuk


 I'll always hold dear the sweet memory of being able to see her so soon after birth!






Happy 1st Birthday Cameron Paige!!!

Love you lots~
Gramma and Grampa



Sunday, November 21, 2010

Happy 25th Birthday Danny!!!!

Today is my third child ~ my only son's 25th birthday!  It is so hard to believe that 25 years have swooshed by since the 21st day of November 1985 when he decided it was time for him to make an appearance.  Daniel Joseph Tufano came into this world 3 1/2 weeks early, weighing 7lbs 6ozs and was still considered premature!  Dan wasn't due until December 15th and even with his size ~ he still had lung issues to overcome.  When visitors would look at him through the glass of the NICU ~ they'd say "Look at him ~ he's good size ~ what's he doing in there?!!"

A few days before Danny's birth I'd been to the Dr's and he had said that I should be taking it easy.  NOT ~ that maybe I should be on bed rest.  We were having Thanksgiving at our house and there really was no time to 'take it easy'!   In the early morning hours of  November 21st I woke up with feeling of being way more advanced in labor than with the previous two babies.  It was about 4:30am and we called the neighbor to come watch the girls and headed for the hospital ~ hubby missed the turnoff!!!  How could he?!  It's was the third time going there!!!  Danny was born 2 hours later!  He was my biggest baby ~ but by far the easiest delivery!  I even helped to deliver him ~ something I still am in awe over ~ but that's another story for another time!

Having just come home from the hospital the day before Thanksgiving ~ We quietly celebrated by ourselves ~ our family of five!

Danny has always been an easy, fun loving, humorous, jokester of a child!  When Dan went to meet his Kindergarten teacher, Mrs. Detro, he asked me over and over if he could tell her a joke!  I was a meany cause I wouldn't let him!!!  By time he hit 2nd grade his teacher Mrs. Palmer decided she would allow him only one joke a day!!! 

Dan having grown up with 3 sisters has a great sense of how to treat (deal with) a woman!!!!  He has an artistic talent ~ he spent many hours as a young  child drawing. He used to read the dictionary every night before bed!!!   He's all boy ~ took Karate lessons (always with a stop at the bakery for 'donuts' where he'd get an extra cause he was so CUTE!!!). Danny played the violin for a couple of years ~ he was really pretty good at it too!  He played football, volleyball and wrestled in high school.  He ALWAYS has had a great time with anything he participated in!!!

Upon graduation from High School ~ Danny attended Ball State for a year and then transferred to Western Illinois when he changed his major.  He has a degree in Construction Management!

Dan loves different beers ~ I call him the 'connoisseur of beers'!  He loves Mexican food ~ he HATES peas!!!! 


 He loves to dress up for Halloween!!! 



                                                      
                                                                        
 he LOVES football ~

This picture, which was taken by the mom of one of the boys in the pic,
was from the last game that the three guys 
 played for Glenbard East! 
It is priceless...


he loves the BEARS!!

 

Dan and Amanda ~ the true love of his life!
Happy 25th Birthday Danny Boy ~
We love you and are very proud of you!

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Imagine...

25 year ago tonight~
hubby and I finished off this pumpkin jar that was filled  with
Dunkin Munchkins!!!



Yummm!!!




And then I began nesting in preparation for...

Monday, November 15, 2010

A gift of life ...

Organ donation ~ a true gift of life.  I am signed up to be an organ donor as well as hubby and some of our kids.  The following video was just reposted on the TakeJake blog. Always so painful to watch...  but spreading the word of the importance of organ donation is so necessary...



Consider being an organ donor

Every 11 minutes, a new person is added to the national waiting list.

An average of 18 people die each day while waiting.

More than 6,000 people died nationwide waiting for an
organ transplant in 2008.

In 2008, more than 300 people registered for
transplants in Illinois died while waiting.

One donor can save or enhance the lives of more than 25 people.

Consider being an organ donor

Knowing that Jake lived his life to it's fullest ~
that through his gift of life to six people
who now may continue
to
live, laugh, love 
just as Jake did ~ 
well ~
it makes it all somewhat comforting....  


Consider taking Jake's picture along with you on a special trip...
 be sure to take a picture with him while there...
share it with the TakeJake project...


Most of all...

Live, Laugh, Love

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Bistros of the Burbs'

Friday evening Lombard Junior's hosted their biggest fundraiser and a delightful evening was had as well as lots of money was raised for our philanthropic needs.  There were 19 local restaurants that gave of their time and specialty food items  ~  the food was beyond delicious!  My personal favorites were Glen Prairie, Emilio's Tapas, Harry Carey's,  Miller's Lombard Ale House.  My favorite dessert was provided by a friend of mine who started her business earlier this year.  CAKE provided an adorable display filled with beautifully decorated cupcakes that were oh so delicious!!!  (sorry I didn't get a good picture of it)

The prize packages were wonderful (my house has never felt so empty!!!) ~ didn't win anything though.  But that is truly okay cause I had a great time with my daughters Cara & Nikki!  In fact Nikki provided us with excitement over the Patrick Kane signed hockey puck that there was a bit of a bidding war going on.  She won ~ all this mom can say is that those men knew when to quit!!!   They would have put it in their offices but I think she's sleeping with it!!!!  She's happy and it was all for a good cause ~ thank you Nikki!!!!


  
 Silent Auction items

 Raffle packages

Centerpieces


Bistros of the Burbs' is now a sweet memory...

Join us next year
on
11-11-11


Thursday, October 28, 2010

one week ago today...


We welcomed...

 Michael Robert Taylor 

Born 10/21/10
7:58 am
8lbs 12 ozs
21 1/4"


This little guy has had a full week...

he's met...
 his big sister Briana

his dog Ditka



  he's watched his 1st Bears game with his daddy!

snuggled with his mommy
to soothe the fact that they ~
 lost...
'that's okay Mikey ~ they'll win another time!

he's cuddled with gramma and grampa











posed with his Christmas stocking

and

 laughed at what gramma had to say!!!

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

life...

One week ago today...

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

glorious Fall

I love Fall

absolutely my favorite
time of year

the beautiful colors

the cooler temperatures

the crunching of leaves

apple donuts

apple cider
with a little rum!

itty bitty
trick or treaters

being able to decorate
with pumpkins
and
my lovely witch



HAPPY FALL!

Monday, October 4, 2010

we're ready...



With loving touches ~
I've finished the Christmas stocking for our 3rd grandbaby
known only as
T2!!!


Once he arrives I can personalize it
with his name!!!

Saturday, September 25, 2010

All in a weeks time...

It was a busy week ~~~~~

It's been a week now since we officially became empty nesters and we've seen Nikki more than when she lived at home!!! 

I joined a great group of ladies from Jr's and went to Hines Hospital to play Bingo with the Vets!!!  They are always so appreciative!  One of the guys in the group I had was being discharged in the next day or two!  He said he'd wished he had his tux to wear home!  I'm sure he and his family have lots to celebrate and wearing a tux would have been a nice touch!!   Got to see the gentleman that looks just like Morgan Freeman!!!  He really does!!!

On Wednesday I helped out at the Community Table that is held at the First Church of Lombard.  There were so many extra hands that night that all I helped to do was collect plates from the attendees that were finished eating. Hubby and his buddy John worked really hard washing the dishes.  Kind of felt a little guilty inviting hubby and then he ends up working!!!   Oh well,  we got to sit down with our friends and enjoy the meal of pot pie ~ boy was it delicious!!!

Today ~ I wrapped up the Christmas gifts that we'll be taking to DC once the newest family member arrives!   Gotta be ready ~ mommy to-be has been contracting on and off now for a couple of weeks and is dilated to 2.  He really has about 5 weeks left  ~ so every day that he remains in mommy is a plus!  Even though we are excited to meet the little one and see his big sister again I'm hoping that mommy can hold on till at least next Friday...

Tonight ~ hubby and I will be babysit miss Cam so that her mommy and daddy can get out by themselves.   Gonna get to watch her walk all over the place and entertain us with her charm.  Oh, the joys of grandbabies!!!   A wonderful way to end to the week...

Wow ~ this is my 50th post!!!  Thanks to my 8 devoted followers!! 

Friday, September 17, 2010

empty nesters...

Empty nesters ~ we've felt this way for awhile cause our youngest Nikki, who is 22, was NEVER home. Today marked another milestone in the Tufano household ~ we are officially empty nesters! We've just returned home from helping her to bring her stuff to her 'new' home.   It truly is bittersweet ~ I'm thrilled for her and a yet a bit meloncholy.


Does she look exicited and ready?!!!!

After seeing where she is going to be living I feel so much more at ease ~ she's with a friend, her brother and in a nice home in a very nice neighborhood.  I fell in love with the house the minute I saw it!!! 



 


 The situation is perfect.

This being Nikki's 3rd attempt at moving out it is definetly meant to be ~ heck,
she may be in Bensenville


but she still lives on Hawthorne!!!!
 


Even though we've reached this milestone in our lives I'm at ease with it ~ my kids are at wonderful stages in their lives and I am happy for them!  I've learned through the older 3 that they still know that "home is where mom is"!!!

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Happy Birthday...




Michelle
due on Sept. 29, 1983
2 weeks early
 my second baby
daughter
sister
quiet as a baby
a little peanut at age '1'
loved her 'thumb'
 always inquisitive
curly hair
daring 
bright 
gymnast
lilac princess
independent
top of her class
wife
mommy
loved
birthday girl!


Wishing you a very Happy 27th Birthday!!!
Love ~Mom



Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Eve of a birthday...

As my daughter Michelle now awaits the birth of her 2nd child I find myself thinking back 27 years ago to what was unknowingly the eve before her birth.  Also my 2nd child ~ her due date was to be September 29th, the Feast of St Michael the Archangel.

I can still vividly remember the day ~ older sister Cara was sick and I was so ready to have the baby.  We laid around the whole day. I guess that was meant to be cause I awoke around 4:00 am on the 16th and off to the hospital we went....   

Michelle is scheduled to have a C-section October 21 ~ so with it being a bit too early for the little guy to make his appearance into our lives ~  his 'mommy' gets to celebrate her birthday resting with her feet up while letting others pamper her!!!

Monday, September 6, 2010

Orchids

Orchids ~ a flower that I used to attribute to Easter, Weddings and Mother's Day.  Something the 'older' women wore!   I was given this beauty from my dear friend Nancy S and I came home and immediately put it into warm water inside this beautiful blue wine bottle of which I had to finish off first!!! It was Friday what can I say!!!!  I also received an Orchid plant for Mother's Day, from hubby, that I am trying really hard to get to bloom again. 

Just look at this beautiful Orchid!
Why am I finding them so attractive these days? 
 I no longer see them worn only by the 'older' women!!! 
Or is it that I am one of those 'older' women now?!!!!

Friday, September 3, 2010

lost and found

Have you checked 'Cash Dash' ~ Illinois' Lost and Found?  I did and have found at least four unclaimed properties in my father's name. My father passed away March 2, 1996 so with a  little digging and some copying of documents I will now wait and see if I've proven my relationship as his 'only' child.  The amounts unclaimed won't make me rich but they sure will come in handy now!

Take a look ~
you never know if you or someone you know will be listed.

Saturday, August 28, 2010

a gift...

Wednesday night ~ there was a knock at the door and in walks someone asking for me ~ hmm???? I didn't recognize her voice!  With a house full of women busy making pillowcases and no sew blankets for our TLC campers that are not well and going through chemo ~ I was in the midst of 'something'!  So as I made my way around and into the living room I met with a very special lady ~ Donna!!!  Total surprise on I my part cause she had the cake that I so wanted to share with another friend for her birthday!!!   Didn't think it was gonna happen for so many reasons but Donna somehow found the time to make it and also another cake that was shared by Yvonne who just so happened to be in on the delivery!!  
mmmwaaaaa!!!! 

My friend loved her cake! 

 I love my friends!!!!

Saturday, August 14, 2010

as they spread their wings...

Gone are the days of our children being in front of the tv with their sippy cups of apple juice watching either Mr Rodgers or Sesame Street ~ or any other favorite! Those were the days of physical exertion ~ chasing them around and then driving them all around as they hit the years of being active in sports, dance, music, etc.    As they begin to spread their wings ~ as we have raised them to do ~ the emotional worry takes over. 

For each 'goodbye' I've said to each stage of raising my children I've learned to welcome another.  Sure there were tears as we went along.  Having been through the stage of 'saying goodbye' as we watched a child move out or left a child at college ~ I want to reassure my friends who are about to do the same for the first time (and even second, third and fourth)  sure there will be tears and a feeling of melancholy and reminiscing 'where did the time go?' for a few days but then something else takes hold ~ the new relationship that develops with your child that is experiencing being on their own for the first time.  It's all very rewarding when you see the wonderful adult that child is!!!! 

So as it's normal and okay to shed those 'tears' and feel those 'feelings' be sure to wrap your arms around your child and hug them tight.   May your heart and mind be assured it's truly not 'goodbye' ~ for they still come home and no matter their age ~ they still need 'mom and dad'!!!! 

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

spiders vs mosquitos

I have to say that I do not have a fondness for spiders ~ but over the last couple of days my dislike, hate, scorn and disdain for mosquitos has grown to the point that I just had to take this picture after cheering on the spider....


spider
(left corner)
vs
mosquito
(hanging upside down on the right)

That's one less mosquito that can bite me! AND the more I hear about bats feeding off of the little buggers I welcome them as well...

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Rain, rain, rain...

It's
just
one
of
those
BLAH
days ~
no
sun
and
lots
of
rain
creates
a
sluggish,
not
so
happy
person...

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Jobs of all kinds...

Today marks my one year anniversary at the G.T. District 87!  Never before have I noted a work anniversary but with jobs scarce at this time I feel it's to be celebrated!!!  I brought Cherry Bomb brownies and Hawaiian cookies yesterday ~ as a welcome back to one of the ladies who'd been off for a month and to mark the occasion of my one year there!

Speaking of sweet treats ~ my very first job, which I started on my 16th birthday, was for Keeler's Candies that was located on St. Charles Rd. in our town.  I loved that job cause it was my first and it was a yummy place to work.  Nothing beats handling sweets ~ one in the box and two in the mouth!!!   The candy dipper had a trade talent that I don't think exists anymore ~ she would scroll the letter of the type of candy on the top as she finished dipping each cream.  There was no having to poke the bottom of a piece to see if you wanted to eat it!!!  I can still see her every move ~ knowing full well even at 16 that it was a talent that not many had.

I left the candy store after a year and went to work for the upholstery store across the street (the new owners of the same business now reside in what used to be Tower Printers  ~ imagine the connection I feel).  My position there was more office related ~ answering the phones, checking the stock market updates for the boss, helping customers.  I stayed at the job until after I graduated and realized that I needed a "real job"!

After many applications and job interviews I was given a chance with an accounting firm right in downtown Lombard (almost directly across the street from my first job!)  The office used to be above what was Henderson's, then Long's and now Morningstar.  My boss Mr. V ~ well he was great!!  Still is ~ I will always hold a special place in my heart for him!  When I think back to my inexperience I know that he really gave me a chance ~ and I proved myself ~  and by time I left there, 5 years later, to have our first child I had brought our office into the #1 slot of keypunching activity!!!!   To date this was the longest I'd been at a job and was a bit sad to leave ~ but very, very ecstatic at my next position as a full time mom!!!

I spent the next 5 years being a full time mom and loved every second of it!  Just before I found out I was pregnant with our third child we had stopped into what was the 'new' Keeler's Candies (it had been bought by a woman named Mary) ~ I mentioned to her that I used to work at the original Keeler's at which she then offered me a job!  I thought it would be fun and 'yummy' but also a couple of hours for 'me' to get out.  I worked evenings so the girls had 'Dad' to occupy them!!  Like I said this was all shortly before I became pregnant with our son so my time there was limited ~ but most certainly okay cause to me there was no job more important than being a mom!! 

With my love for kids and being a mom ~ baby #4 came along!  My peeps, who were all about 2 years 2 mos to 2 1/2 years apart from each other, kept me quite busy!!  When the youngest was getting ready to start kindergarten I knew I needed to find something for 'me'!

I had become involved with Lombard Juniors and while at a GFWC IL 5th District meeting I meet Laurie B., the Executive Director of Safe Harbor!!  To this day I am in awe with the fact that I approached her, introduced myself and said that I would be interested in volunteering at the room for children whose parents/guardians are in court. I started volunteering at S.H. shortly after they opened and about a year later I was asked to become a part time employee!  At first it was an uncomfortable feeling for me to be getting paid for the job when I'd been doing it for 'free'!!!  That feeling didn't last long because my part time position turned into my longest job held ~ 7 years of being able to 'play' with children everyday that I was there!!  It was rewarding being able to help create a safe setting for the children that would visit.

Laurie and I became great friends, have remained so, and even though we don't see each other often enough I know there will always be a special place in my heart for her!  Giving notice that I needed to quit was very difficult for me but I needed to move on to help out at the family business ~ of which 'that door has closed' and a 'new one has opened'  ~  I now begin the 2nd year with my job that involves many different responsibilities...

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Family dirt...

'Family dirt' ~ every family has some!  Have I peaked your interest?!   It's not the juicy, dark, unspoken secrets that every family has ~ It's about this very special jar of dirt that comes from what I've always considered my 'home base' growing up!


This jar of dirt is from the dairy farm, located in Burlington, WI, that was owned by my dear grandparents. The jar, which hasn't been opened til now, was retrieved from the 'land' eleven plus years ago and upon my opening it the scent of farmland escaped and brought back to me some very sweet memories....

I'm hoping that this jar ~ along with the memories I have to share will get handed down generation after generation and never, ever disposed of.   I'd love to hear about your 'family dirt'...

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Welcome You Home...


WELCOME HOME
Cpl Thomas Prete!
 
Thank you for serving our country...

Sunday, July 18, 2010

When one door closes another opens...

It was just about a year ago that we closed the books on Tower Printers/Tower Records of Illinois/Tower Publications.  A sad day indeed, as my Father In-Law, at around 50, started the business back in 1973 as a Sir Speedy.  He left the Sir Speedy franchise behind and became Tower Instant Press and then Tower Printers.  They dropped the "Instant" when people 'really' wanted the job yesterday!! 

Hubby went to work at Tower right out of high school.  Taught himself the printing angle of the business while FIL handled the business end ~ it worked very well for 35 years!!!  Hubby bought the business back in the 90's and in 2000 brought it into Lombard with a prime location right on Main St. across from Mr. Z's!  My father in-law, even though he was retired, worked at the shop every morning. I began working there around 2004 to help out and I loved spending the mornings with him ~ the stories he can tell! 

The whole printing industry is just not what is was at one time with the Internet and all.  We closed the storefront and moved the business to our home.  Hubby brokered during this time and well it just didn't work out...

So with one door closing another opened ~ I found a job at Glenbard Township Dist 87 (thanks to a dear friend!) and hubby, who at about the same age as his father was, changed professions and went to work in Arizona and then Denver for about 7 months. We both started our 'new' jobs on August 3, 2009. 

Although we felt fortunate that he was working ~ it was a trying time as he was gone for 2 weeks at a time, home for 3 days and then gone again.  Thank goodness for our kids here and of course our dear friends.  It was a tough decision but we were going to make the move to Denver. We thought that we had to move where the job was ~  but when we really thought everything out we just couldn't do it.  Couldn't leave the area where we both have lived for 40 years, our kids and the dearest of friends.  Our house wasn't selling and financially with the economy we were looking at loosing a ton.  So with happy hearts we announced we were staying!!!  We are able to remain in our home that is filled with 24 years of memories, see our kids and grandbaby here frequently, see the parents weekly and enjoy our many friends. 

With that ~ another door closed ~ and after a couple of weeks another opened!  Hubby found a job here selling cars for Ford.  It's not the perfect job but he's employed!   He knows this isn't the job he wants to stay in ~ how can someone who has worked a profession for 35 years switch into something else at the drop of a hat????? 

A year ago I know we were grieving the loss of our lively hood ~ feeling that we were at a point in our lives  with the kids grown and most on their own that we should be able to do more for 'us'.  With time comes healing and we've come to realize and accept that we are just one of many who are in this "economic" disaster and together we will get through it.  The simplicity of just being at home, watching a movie together, spending more time with family and  friends has made a come back.  Don't get me wrong I'd love to eat out at the places that we've frequented for so many years but it's okay cause until another door opens ~ pizza and game night have won out!!! 

Saturday, July 17, 2010

The first of many "firsts"...

Yesterday I was able to 'capture the moment' of Cam getting her 1st hair cut!!!!  The last time such a fuss was made over a 'first' of this kind was for Danny's 1st hair cut and that was 24 years ago!!!! 
The above picture was taken the beginning of July and as you can see Cam was sporting a mullet!  Her mommy FINALLY gave in and agreed to let Auntie Nikki cut it!!!! 



It was quite the 'event' ~ even Great Aunt Vicky was there...


Okay, here we go ~ it's gonna happen...

The first snip...


I wasn't as worried about Cam as much as I was about her mommy!


  
As you can see Cam did very well and she even looks relieved to have the 'mullet' gone! 


What a difference a new 'do' makes...

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Hydrangeas

One of my favorite plants in my garden is the Hydrangea plant that I just added last year!  I was so excited that I was able to dry one of the flowers from it and have admired it everyday since. 


Back in the spring I questioned whether this leafy plant was indeed the Hydrangea plant and I'm happy to say it is!!! I have flowers again!!!  I am excited that it has survived a year and even though the flowers aren't as big as last years ~ they are just as pretty!!! 













 
Another of my favorites is the Autumn Clematis that I finally got to take hold a couple of years ago ~ this plant has taken over the fence and even when it's just "green" it is beautiful! 





and in the fall when it blooms ~
it is beautiful!!!