Saturday, August 28, 2010

a gift...

Wednesday night ~ there was a knock at the door and in walks someone asking for me ~ hmm???? I didn't recognize her voice!  With a house full of women busy making pillowcases and no sew blankets for our TLC campers that are not well and going through chemo ~ I was in the midst of 'something'!  So as I made my way around and into the living room I met with a very special lady ~ Donna!!!  Total surprise on I my part cause she had the cake that I so wanted to share with another friend for her birthday!!!   Didn't think it was gonna happen for so many reasons but Donna somehow found the time to make it and also another cake that was shared by Yvonne who just so happened to be in on the delivery!!  
mmmwaaaaa!!!! 

My friend loved her cake! 

 I love my friends!!!!

Saturday, August 14, 2010

as they spread their wings...

Gone are the days of our children being in front of the tv with their sippy cups of apple juice watching either Mr Rodgers or Sesame Street ~ or any other favorite! Those were the days of physical exertion ~ chasing them around and then driving them all around as they hit the years of being active in sports, dance, music, etc.    As they begin to spread their wings ~ as we have raised them to do ~ the emotional worry takes over. 

For each 'goodbye' I've said to each stage of raising my children I've learned to welcome another.  Sure there were tears as we went along.  Having been through the stage of 'saying goodbye' as we watched a child move out or left a child at college ~ I want to reassure my friends who are about to do the same for the first time (and even second, third and fourth)  sure there will be tears and a feeling of melancholy and reminiscing 'where did the time go?' for a few days but then something else takes hold ~ the new relationship that develops with your child that is experiencing being on their own for the first time.  It's all very rewarding when you see the wonderful adult that child is!!!! 

So as it's normal and okay to shed those 'tears' and feel those 'feelings' be sure to wrap your arms around your child and hug them tight.   May your heart and mind be assured it's truly not 'goodbye' ~ for they still come home and no matter their age ~ they still need 'mom and dad'!!!! 

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

spiders vs mosquitos

I have to say that I do not have a fondness for spiders ~ but over the last couple of days my dislike, hate, scorn and disdain for mosquitos has grown to the point that I just had to take this picture after cheering on the spider....


spider
(left corner)
vs
mosquito
(hanging upside down on the right)

That's one less mosquito that can bite me! AND the more I hear about bats feeding off of the little buggers I welcome them as well...

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Rain, rain, rain...

It's
just
one
of
those
BLAH
days ~
no
sun
and
lots
of
rain
creates
a
sluggish,
not
so
happy
person...

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Jobs of all kinds...

Today marks my one year anniversary at the G.T. District 87!  Never before have I noted a work anniversary but with jobs scarce at this time I feel it's to be celebrated!!!  I brought Cherry Bomb brownies and Hawaiian cookies yesterday ~ as a welcome back to one of the ladies who'd been off for a month and to mark the occasion of my one year there!

Speaking of sweet treats ~ my very first job, which I started on my 16th birthday, was for Keeler's Candies that was located on St. Charles Rd. in our town.  I loved that job cause it was my first and it was a yummy place to work.  Nothing beats handling sweets ~ one in the box and two in the mouth!!!   The candy dipper had a trade talent that I don't think exists anymore ~ she would scroll the letter of the type of candy on the top as she finished dipping each cream.  There was no having to poke the bottom of a piece to see if you wanted to eat it!!!  I can still see her every move ~ knowing full well even at 16 that it was a talent that not many had.

I left the candy store after a year and went to work for the upholstery store across the street (the new owners of the same business now reside in what used to be Tower Printers  ~ imagine the connection I feel).  My position there was more office related ~ answering the phones, checking the stock market updates for the boss, helping customers.  I stayed at the job until after I graduated and realized that I needed a "real job"!

After many applications and job interviews I was given a chance with an accounting firm right in downtown Lombard (almost directly across the street from my first job!)  The office used to be above what was Henderson's, then Long's and now Morningstar.  My boss Mr. V ~ well he was great!!  Still is ~ I will always hold a special place in my heart for him!  When I think back to my inexperience I know that he really gave me a chance ~ and I proved myself ~  and by time I left there, 5 years later, to have our first child I had brought our office into the #1 slot of keypunching activity!!!!   To date this was the longest I'd been at a job and was a bit sad to leave ~ but very, very ecstatic at my next position as a full time mom!!!

I spent the next 5 years being a full time mom and loved every second of it!  Just before I found out I was pregnant with our third child we had stopped into what was the 'new' Keeler's Candies (it had been bought by a woman named Mary) ~ I mentioned to her that I used to work at the original Keeler's at which she then offered me a job!  I thought it would be fun and 'yummy' but also a couple of hours for 'me' to get out.  I worked evenings so the girls had 'Dad' to occupy them!!  Like I said this was all shortly before I became pregnant with our son so my time there was limited ~ but most certainly okay cause to me there was no job more important than being a mom!! 

With my love for kids and being a mom ~ baby #4 came along!  My peeps, who were all about 2 years 2 mos to 2 1/2 years apart from each other, kept me quite busy!!  When the youngest was getting ready to start kindergarten I knew I needed to find something for 'me'!

I had become involved with Lombard Juniors and while at a GFWC IL 5th District meeting I meet Laurie B., the Executive Director of Safe Harbor!!  To this day I am in awe with the fact that I approached her, introduced myself and said that I would be interested in volunteering at the room for children whose parents/guardians are in court. I started volunteering at S.H. shortly after they opened and about a year later I was asked to become a part time employee!  At first it was an uncomfortable feeling for me to be getting paid for the job when I'd been doing it for 'free'!!!  That feeling didn't last long because my part time position turned into my longest job held ~ 7 years of being able to 'play' with children everyday that I was there!!  It was rewarding being able to help create a safe setting for the children that would visit.

Laurie and I became great friends, have remained so, and even though we don't see each other often enough I know there will always be a special place in my heart for her!  Giving notice that I needed to quit was very difficult for me but I needed to move on to help out at the family business ~ of which 'that door has closed' and a 'new one has opened'  ~  I now begin the 2nd year with my job that involves many different responsibilities...